I've spent 7 hours now trying to multiplayer with my friends, we are all from an IT background and so have a grasp on ISPs and such, we've tried everything on google's first 6 pages, and everything on the discord, and tried looking here aswell.
Having overcome about 4 different issues, i am now stuck at a point, where i join my friends game, and i am essentially desynched from what is going on, about a 2 minute delay. I get a dc/soft crash after about 2-5 minutes of which 2 minutes, of which 2 minutes are spent being frozen in place during the load in.
I DC to main menu
I've tried SO many different things, that i am now 100% sure that it is a game bug, and nothing i can sort from my end, which is extremely frustrating, because my 2 other friends have zero issues.